Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Project Object on Tour: Tonight in Wilkes-Barre, PA (and some thoughts about the internet)

Photo of Eric Slick by Gary Slick at the World Cafe on October 14, 2007

Oh man, the show Sunday night at WCL was so freaking fantastic I have no words. If you are anywhere in the Wilkes-Barre, PA area, you absolutely must catch them tonight at the River Street Jazz Cafe. They are so fucking awesome it's ridiculous...and really, there's not much more I can say but courtesy of Gary, I do have photos...some are from World Cafe Live Sunday night and others from Asbury Park Saturday evening:

Percussionist Joshua Oxford with Eric Slick

Keyboardist/mandolin player Jordan Shapiro

Sax player Elliott Levin, Eric Slick, and Dave Dreiwitz - the new Crescent Moon?

The amazing and incredible Napoleon Murphy Brock

One of the best male (ha!) bassists in the universe, Dave Johnsen

Keyboard wizard Eric Svalgard

One of my favorite people in the universe and now one of my favorite guitarists as well, Andre Cholmondeley

Elliott and Dave - who knew Dave could also play trumpet? He rocks!

And here are the obligatory fan reviews:

From the (tee hee again) Zappa forum board

"An awesome show... A few highlights for me were...

The 3 minute bass solo by Dave Johnson during City of Tiny Lights (eat your heart out Dweezil!!), the drum and percussion duet during Don;t You Ever Wash That when Josh and Eric switched percussion set..

And of course Eric singing I'm So Cute was so Bozzioish it was ridiculous... and Ed Palermo's appearance for the encore of Peaches.. And of course everything Napi played was fabulous...even took a couple of ripping solos.. And Andre was amazing...man there were flames shooting out of his fingers at times.. Smile

I think the highest praise I can give is that you hardly even noticed that Ike wasn't there... The boys played like they had something to prove, and boy did they ever..
Andre, we await impatiently for the next tour and your next appearance in the NYC area..."

From the Ween forum board:

"Great fucking show last night. I love that room. Best Crescent Moon set I've ever seen. They had Elliot sit in with them on sax."

"Show was great except I missed all of Crescent Moons set except the last tune (Hammer to the Skull).

Left early to assure work was not missed. I was there physically but totally out of it all day. Def. will be checking P/O again. Slicks parents were there both nights and were fucking awesome folks."

"...I can't say enough about Eric Slick. His playing with P/O was so amazing I shit myself. His sister is a monster on the bass as well.....a family that plays together....stays together."

"... slick is just.... TOO slick!!"


I agree. Eric Slick is too slick for words. He is one of the kindest, generous, most humble and talented people you'll ever want to meet. And some of you have been asking me via email "Why is he taking drum lessons?"

Err...the same reason I constantly attend writing workshops. Because you need to keep expanding your horizons so that you never get stale or stagnate. It's why when I'm not writing myself, I'm reading books by others, in all genres. Eric has the chance to study with one of the top drum professors at Berklee School of Music in Boston. You know what he's actually doing? Taking a twelve hour Greyhound bus ride by himself every chance he gets in between touring at great time and expense just for this privilege.

And good grief, for the last time, he is not the 5th "Beatle" in King Crimson. As Adrian succinctly said in his blog: ERIC IS MINE. No offense to Robert Fripp, but I kinda wish he'd spill the beans already because some of the speculation has not been all that nice and in all fairness, enough time has passed and the natives are getting restless ha ha.

And now some serious words from your sponsor.

When I first started this blog, I had no idea where I was going with it but fortuitously enough, I began it at the end of October, 2004, just as Nanowrimo, or National Writing Month, was about to begin. Nanowrimo is an event I try to participate in every year, in which the goal is to write a 50,000 word novel in thirty days during the month of November. Believe it or not, I have written four novels using Nanowrimo as a springboard, though naturally what I wrote in thirty days was edited and rewritten many times before they were actually finished novels. And so I used the blog back then as a vehicle to post daily chapters during November, 2004 which I have since removed.

So then the blog sort of evolved into a daily personal diary (and I had to laugh at one of my stalkers who typed on another writing site to which I belong "I am a literary writer - I do not read personal blogs" but my site meter tells me WAY differently...sometimes she spends hours a day here, reading even my comment section over and over again and will even use my blog to further her own interests...i.e., if someone interviews or reviews me, she copies the link and then writes to that person, asking them to review or interview her...only problem is, she's a terrible writer and I don't want guilt by association so now I know to let these people know in advance that once their piece on me is published, they will probably be hearing from her and damn if it isn't true...they write back to me every time and say "How did you know that, Robin - are you psychic?" Nah, I just know human nature har har.)

When I was lucky enough to get a book deal for Three Days in New York City, I then used the blog as promo/advertising for my writing. And I still do...it's a very cool and useful tool to have - just ask Neil Gaiman. (More on him later though not a lot - just the fact that he's friendly with Harlan Ellison and oh boy wait until you see what I link below about Harlan). In fact, Neil stopped by here a couple of years ago and left a comment and I still haven't recovered...but in addition to Neil, I've met several other interesting writers and personalities and we've sporadically emailed back and forth about our books...it's been truly wonderful. You know why? Because this is the internet, not the real world...and our "friendships" end here. In the real world, we have our families...and on a daily basis we deal with the mundane...as well as great joy and horrifying grief just like everyone else. These are things we want to share with the people whom we love in the real world but not necessarily the internet because really, other than what I type here, what do you actually know about me? Let me answer that for you.

Absolutely nothing.

You may think you do, but trust me, you do not.

I only write here what I want you to know...and if you insist on reading secret messages into what I've written or have done a psychological profile on me based on that, you are wasting your time.

Getting back to my blog...

So then Julie and Eric landed their dream gig with Adrian Belew and Eric also with Project Object, Crescent Moon...and countless others. When that happened, this blog became a labor of love for me to promote my kids as well, and I met many fans who comment here and email me and it's fabulous, it really is.

But the bottom line is, and I've tried to say this many times nicely...the reason I gravitated to the internet in the first place is that I am not a social person. Yeah, I have been lucky enough to meet a few writers on line at places like Zoetrope Studios with whom I did click with in the real world -- Susan Henderson, Ellen Meister, Maryanne Stahl,, Jordan Rosenfeld, Kimberly Wetherell, Myfanwy Collins, and many from the Back Space writing community come to mind but the truth of the matter is, I have recently been receiving emails which are way upsetting because they are making me feel like I am somehow hurting people I don't even know because I don't want to connect with them in the real world either by telephone or in person...even though I have tried to tell them it's not them, it's me...just ask my husband, if not for the kids and the fact that I'm a writer and need to earn a living, I would probably never even leave my house unless it's to eat in a good restaurant or travel someplace cool.

I love my house. And I love my family. My needs are very basic, and I guess I'm extremely lucky because I'm happy in my own skin and don't need others around me.

I am also not a therapist.

I understand we all have problems - I have problems of my own - but I can't solve yours and if you must know, when internet strangers tell me their problems, I want to distance myself from them even further because I simply do not have the means or time to help them -- hey, I'm damaged myself -- but despite this, I feel terrible guilt instead of saying to myself "This is the internet, Robin...you don't even have to sign on. Why are you worrying about strangers?"

I use AOL. It got to the point where as soon as I signed on, I would be gang-banged instant messaged. I was only signing on to check my mail in between writing, but instead ended up wasting hours IMing because I felt guilty. Again.

As a result, I've completely stopped instant messaging and don't even sign on to AOL; I've disconnected all of my other instant messaging tools and was shocked to learn that because I have a gmail account anyone can chat with me there so now I don't even stay signed on to that during the day.

Which leaves the blog. I love my blog. I hope it goes on forever and the archives remain even after I've left this planet. Please feel free to visit all day long if you want - I love that you enjoy reading about Julie and Eric and Adrian and even me.

But it has to stop there.

I notice that Neil Gaiman doesn't have a comments section on his blog and now I know why. I enjoy my comments, though - 99% of the time they are lovely and fun and I also enjoy commenting at places like LitPark, so I really don't want to have to disconnect my comments section as well.

Please don't force me to take that step. Read, enjoy, comment in a positive manner about music and writing...tell me a joke...whatever...but remember, this is the internet, and this is a dangerous place...this is a dangerous place (a prize goes to the first person who comments who knows where I got that phrase from).

Remember when I mentioned Harlan Ellison above? Read this, and now you will understand why the internet has lost its appeal for me and why I am rethinking how open I am on line. It's one of the most chilling and fascinating articles on how we are misconstrued on the internet I've ever read, and the fact that someone as famous as Harlan got involved...holy cow.

The Life and Death of Jesse James



belewbloggfan said...

Hey Rob!
Thela Hun Ginjeet - Adrian Belew!
This IS a dangerous place....
I am so sorry that you have had to deal with all this bull@#$%.
As I've discussed at length before on Adrian's blog comment section - this new age of communication and ease of access to music IS a great thing - but so easily it can become a monster that threatens to overtake you, and even harm you....if you let it!

festinagreg said...

Thela Hun Gingeet Krimson

claud said...

Hi Robin,

This is SO interesting to me -- the whole vampire thing, you know!

Nothing like a vampire to help us get clear about where our "thresholds" are, I always say.

Hope this all works out soon for you, and I appreciated this post! An eye-opener for sure.

Jordan E. Rosenfeld said...

Sobering and honest post, Robin. I'm glad you posted this--because you give of yourself so generously and it irks me to think of people getting mad at you for not wanting to connect. It's a strange time we live in, eh?


RobinSlick said...

Wendy, have I mentioned I love you recently enough? I do. You are one person I know I'd click with in the real world...you, me, and Rena should do a Belew retreat sometime...just hole up somewhere in your neck of the woods with all of Ade's CDs and listen to music for 3 days straight, only stopping to stuff our face with food.

And yep, you and festinagreg win the prize...what do you guys want?

Hi, Claud...yeah...it's crazy. I love meeting people via my blog and I hope I'm not scaring people away by my post today but holy cow, I've had like a dozen horrible experiences in the past few months and I finally reached my limit and had to speak up.

Ugh, and that "vampire"...I wish I could laugh at her...sometimes I do...sometimes I even feel sorry for her because she calls herself a writer and can't even type a sentence without some hilarious spelling or grammatical mistake ...but when I learned what she was doing and why she kept stopping by here, I snapped.

So please keep stopping by, okay?

RobinSlick said...

Hey, Jordan - your post appeared just as I was answering the others.


I was reticent to post this today but felt I had no choice.

Love you,

belewbloggfan said...

I must have Ade on the brain!
Thela is an KC song - written by Adrian Belew....sorry

Hey Rob,
I just wanted to also mention that I whole-heartedly second your comment regarding Robert Fripp.... and the speculation regarding the who the new drummer will be.

An interesting stunt to generate interest in the forthcoming 40th anniversary (very limited) tour in TWO THOUSAND AND NINE!!!! That's a long ways away - how long is he going to keep this 'hype' going?

Sadly, it seems to me that RF did not spend a lot of time considering the possibility of, and the eventual negative outcomes experienced by those who have endured the recent maelstrom of speculation....
We're over and done with this Robert - time to spill the beans and reveal who the new drummer is...

And regarding Eric - as mentioned yesterday by Adrian Belew, Eric really IS way ahead of his years, and ever so dedicated to his craft - evidenced by the extreme lengths he is prepared to go personally, to ensure that his incredible talent continues to grow, mature and (if it is even possible!) get even better!

Hands off Mr. Fripp - Eric Slick belongs to Adrian Belew! Go find your own phenom!

belewbloggfan said...

Ha Ha.....
That sounds way too wonderful Rob!
Good friends, good food & Adrian Belew! What a stella combination - what time will you all be here? LOL

Just so you know - not to be too weird or 'vampish'...you and your family truly rock my world Rob. Your blog is just killer - and I know that our world would be at a huge loss should your blog star go out!

Adrian's words of wisdom yesterday were so apt - and deserve another go round - but directed to you this time....

"an absolute belief in yourself is the breath of creativity and when that stops, creativity dies."

Don't ever stop believing in yourself Rob, and please, do not stop 'breathing' any time soon!

Now...what could I possibly want as my prize? Ha...that is too easy - that the ADRIAN BELEW POWER TRIO come and play in Vancouver, Canada!

Have a great day Rob - don't let them blogbugs bite!

LitPark said...


I was going to be the first to type KING CRIMSON and win a prize, but I was too slow.

Robin, you are wise to speak up. I suffered on Zoetrope for years giving freebie edits to every person who ever wrote a manuscript I didn't want to read. I lost my time with my family. I suffered headaches, had constant eye checks, didn't enjoy what I was reading, didn't end up liking the people who asked for favors, and didn't have a spot of time for my own writing. My husband used to ask, "WHY? Do you even know these people?" And I told him I did it because I didn't know how to say, No. Finally, he said, "Would you stop out of respect for our family, then?" And I did.

Love, the extroverted hermit

peanut and planet said...

what a compelling, f^&&%ed up story. this is why I've pretty much refused to meet people I know online or breach my anonymity in any way.

Sorry you have an online leach. Usually, when faced by the bright light of accusation, these cave creatures cower and flee.

Kimberly said...

Oh Robin - what a sad sad post (the second half anyway...) So let me focus on the first half...



RobinSlick said...

Wendy, as you know, I am in total agreement. And once again, THANK YOU.

Thanks for the support, Sue. I've been pretty shaken up lately and I really went back and forth this morning as to whether to post what I wrote but I finally decided I had to. I am actually letting it affect me physically as well and have been nauseous for days. You knew King Crimson? Yeah! Good for you! (Or are you just kidding me?) And I am very frustrated that LitPark is down because I have a hell of a lot of nerve talking about stalkers the way I stalk LitPark...but your comments are always so entertaining...mostly, anyway (ha).

Jess, you are a lot smarter than I am. How was the turkey fry, by the way?

Yo, Kim! I just got your fabulous newsletter! I am so, so psyched..and we really need to nail Mrs. H down for a night of depravity in NYC.

LitPark said...

Yeah, but only because I Googled. My music trivia is more in the Trouble Funk to Public Enemy range.

P.S. Speaking of real-world love, Mr. H just called me from Baskin Robbins and read me every single flavor of ice cream they had.

peanut and planet said...

Turkey was amazing. Holy F&^%ing Sh*& was it awesome. Moist breast meat, luscious dark meat, ... I'll stop now before it gets pornographic.

We deep fried stuffing balls. I made jalapenos stuffed with sweet potato and cream cheese and then deep fried them.

I bought: quinoa salad with veggies and pomegranate, a shredded carrot salad completely without raisins, and a plum cobbler like thing.

There was mulled cider with rum.

Which reminds me, I need to pimp my friends' annual event: The Pirate Cruise. I hope you don't mind me posting a link here.

Be a pirate, cruise the Delaware, be debauched and so on.

Tickledrop said...

Robin. Don't ever come out of that comfy skin you are in. It fits you perfect! Beautiful!

I remember first finding your blog - it was such a connection right from the start. You were just getting to know the genius and love that Adrian shares in this world and I was so very excited for you, Gary and the kids.

I am up for the Belew Fest Party anytime! (HI WENDY!) There will be no shortage at that party! :-)

Hang in there lady. I know some people suck.

brainpang said...

Ha! That was your best entry ever.
Anonymously yours, bp

lance reynald said...


just dropping by to...

seems I left my glitter graphics in my other pants...

I need to remember to get over here more often; you're good for a shut in.

and why oh why do I suspect I know who your shadow is...?

xo. LR

RobinSlick said...

Okay, Jess, when are you inviting me to dinner? That meal sounds seriously sick. I can pimp your friend's event in my blog tomorrow...wish I could go but I have a feeling I'd be the oldest one there by like several decades har har.

Rena, Brainpang - thank you! And I'm so honored to be visited by a member of the esteemed Zappa crowd.

Hi, Lance - I'm thrilled to see you here, too, and yeah, I bet you do know who it is and I'd be laughing and enjoying the "entertainment" she provides if she wasn't a passive aggressive me, me, me person, you know? And a stalker...